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What is happiness?

People always use different terms to describe what is happiness. For someone it might be excitement, passion, exhilaration, freedom, feeling fully alive with inspiration and joy. For another it might be more peaceful, content, capable, hopeful and comfortable feeling. In my opinion, the happiness is love, achieve the goal and reasonable attitude.

“There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved”, said by George Sand, a French woman writer. There are many ways to express and donate our loves, as you say “I love you” to your parents, as you say “I miss you” to your lover, as you say “let me help you” to one who really need your help. As we know, there are many poor people in our society. In order to donate our love, you can contribute some money to help them. Received our assistance, their lives will improve. When you get the selflessly love from your parents, when you get the candied love from your lovers, when you get the pure-hearted love from the strangers whom you helped. As the smiles will appear on their faces, you have received the best reward-- happiness.

Getting gladness after you have accomplished the goal is happiness. To adapt the development of our society, you need to set a goal of study constantly. Now, I am studying in BNU, and my goal of study is to get the bachelor degree of English. Through my effort and diligence, I could image it, when I draw on the trencher cap and wear the gown of bachelor, and I’m on top of the world. To get the lover, you also need to set a goal of love. As you release your charm and use your skill everyday, finally you have got your lover and married, and you are the happiest person in the universal. The feeling of get the bachelor degree and get the lover is happiness.

Happiness is a rational attitude. People sometimes go to extremes and frantically pursue money, power, high social status, which are all symbols of success—but never of happiness. Most of them couldn’t get the real happy from it, because the money, power and high social status are limitless, so you couldn’t get the top of them. Perhaps if they change their goal from ultimate success to unswerving efforts and to enjoy the process, if they will successful one day, they’d be a great deal happier.

Happiness is considered very important in our life, and different people give different defines to happiness. Maybe you say that I have money so that I am a happy man, maybe you say that I have friends so that I am a happy man, maybe you say that I get a good mark today so that I am a happy man. Basically, the happiness depends on dedication.